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About Me


Who the hell am I?  I think that's a question that I am still trying to answer!  I have been blogging since 1999 and through all of that I really have found out a lot about who I am.  I do regret that I can't dig up past archives of my old free sites and domains because I am sure 24 year old me could have a great laugh at the younger more immature version of myself.  

I had many sites since 1999 and went through many phases of the wonderful "blogging" scene.  I went through (and survived) the "CamGirl" fad and unfortunately to say, I was one of those people who was very overly obsessed with taking pictures of anything and everything that I bought, ate, my animals... (Wow, am I glad THAT is over!)  Now-a-days, if you say "CamGirl" it doesn't mean what it used to.  It used to be innocent girls who were just obsesed with taking pictures of themselves and anything that could fit in front of a webcam.  If you google it now... well, you get the picture.  It was completely innocent back then!  (Honest!!)  

Wanting to be a writer growing up, I feel that this is a pretty good medium between being able to express my creativity through different ways (digital art, design, writing, etc...) as well as sharing experiences, mistakes, stupidity and reviews with everyone out there.  I feel that if someone can learn something from anything I post, I feel like I have succeeded just a little bit. :)
I am a single mom of 2 girls.  I was engaged to my first real love, but that relationship ended in heartbreak. (And my oldest!)  Alayna is a beautiful, talented, funny and smart 4 year old who was born at 35 weeks.  She was a 8lb 7oz preemie. (No joke!!)  I had a lot of medical complications that contributed to her high weight and my preterm labor.  She was in the hospital for a month due to feeding problems and the only thing I remember about that month was crying non stop.  I remember feeding her through a gastro tube, I remember talks of surgeries, I remember the one step forward three steps back... We conquered it and she is now the best little girl anyone could ever want and I love her more than I thought I could love anyone.  She is my best friend.

Olivia is a 2 year old spunky, smart, overly adorable, beautiful and funny girl.  She was born almost full term at 39 weeks and just a few days.  She was born a few days before Christmas and was a scheduled induction because I was due ON Christmas.  lol  My doctor was going out of town for the Holidays and wanted to deliver Olivia herself.  She loves her big sister and wants to be just like her.  Follows her around, and is her partner in crime. :)
 My girls are my life.

As every mother does, sometimes I need a break.  When that moment comes, I love to go out with my friends.  We go to NYC often just because it is close.  We live 20 minutes outside of the city and love to just walk around, go shopping and go to shows.  I'm a complete theater junkie and have been all my life.  My favorite shows have been; Les Miserables, Rent, Spamalot and Next To Normal.  I will go see any show, though.  I will see anything at least once.  Truth being, you never know if the show will spark your interest, even if it doesn't from first glance. :)
I am an artist.  I attended art school on a scholarship and loved it there.  Everyone was on the same wavelength as I was.  It reaffirmed my belief that artists have a completely different mind and way of thinking than other people.  I loved the fact that I was able to relate to a lot of my classmates and loved even more that I could wake up every morning and do what I love.  I majored in 2D Fine Arts and minored in Photography.  
Since college, I have been through some different jobs.  Mostly retail since I wanted to be home with my kids.  I am also a certified tax preparer and worked at H&R Block for two years.  Currently, I am a jewelry designer, freelance artist & mural artist, mystery shopper and blogger.  (I get paid for everything but blogging. LOL)  I own my own business, which is currently on hiatus, and love the fact that I can be creative and make (somewhat) of a living.  My ultimate dream is to someday open a brick and mortar store with my jewelry and other local artisan jewelry as well. :)  
Why do I blog?  I blog mostly because I have a lot to say.  I like to talk about my kids, I like to talk about my day and I love to talk about exciting things that may have happened.  I'm very opinionated and sometimes that can be a good thing.  I love to share new products that I have tried and love.  I believe that hearing real reviews from real people and real moms really do help in making  decisions.  I know for me that is true!!  I just love feeling like I have a say in things. :)  





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Apr 10, 2006

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Apr 9, 2006

101 in 1001

I started a 101 in 1001 last year when I had my own domain.  After I decided to keep this site as my personal/mommy blog, I completely forgot about it, sadly.  I had accomplished a lot of my 101 in 1001 and I have to say that writing this down does definitely keep me motivated.  Especially since I look at it daily.  It actually is very exciting; the thought of possibly accomplishing almost everything on my list.  I hope that I can.  They're important to me.  As I finish something, I may add something in.  Completed tasks will be in red bold and have a (+$5) next to it since I am going to be saving $5 for everything I finish.  In progress tasks will be blue and italicized.

Started: April 9, 2011
Ends: January 4, 2014
  1. Finish one of the scrapbooks I've started
  2. Lose 20 lbs
  3. Save up a dollar every day for 1001 days (Total to date: $70)
  4. Learn to actually cook a real meal.
  5. Clean my entire house and keep it clean for a month.
  6. Do a real craft show with my jewelry.
  7. Get my business back up and running successfully and fully
  8. Take one picture every day for one year.
  9. Get my daughter into some activities
  10. Find someone to date that is actually worthwhile
  11. Get Alayna a bike that she will actually ride
  12. Teach my kids how to ice skate
  13. Keep my grocery bills to $31 or less for 2 months
  14. Write a letter to Alayna's dad's mom 
  15. Go through all my old clothes and sell/get rid of the ones that don't fit
  16. Lose 50 lbs
  17. Go to the gym and keep it up for 2 months
  18. Get to 400 followers on my blog
  19. Finish half of a novel
  20. Land a job that is long term and worth it
  21. Blog everyday for 2 months straight
  22. Come up with at least 10 interesting blog posts
  23. Get a domain
  24. Cancel one of my cell phones
  25. Make 10 video blogs
  26. Try to get up earlier and actually have energy
  27. Help Alayna learn to write her own name
  28. Organize all of our family photos
  29. Rent and watch 30 movies (2 so far)
  30. Learn to make more in depth jewelry
  31. Eventually run 5 miles without feeling like death
  32. Plant a garden with fruits, veggies and flowers
  33. Start my Turbo Jam tapes that I have had forever.
  34. Do something different in NYC. Get out of times square
  35. Get the perfect DVD organizer the kids can't touch
  36. Go through all of the toys and get rid of toys that don't match
  37. Organize toys that go together
  38. Make a dinner and have my birth family over
  39. Get Olivia off the bottle and only drink from sippies
  40. Go to a mommy blog get together/convention
  41. Reach my weight goal
  42. Have the kids eat healthier.
  43. Get my mom to give up at least HALF of her cook books
  44. Make my grandmother's babka or pierogies
  45. Host a great birthday party for my kids
  46. Make new bloggy friends
  47. Take my kids to the zoo
  48. Go to the beach with my girls
  49. Win some kind of contest
  50. Go to a talk show when my idol is there
  51. Go to a club with my friends
  52. Visit a different state that I have never been to
  53. Have a garage sale/post on ebay and get $400 total to put away
  54. Get contacts again
  55. Drink 8 glasses of water a day for 3 weeks
  56. Buy the Medium DVD set. 
  57. Get a new car/get mine completely fixed
  58. See Wicked again
  59. Go to a Hanson concert and do The Walk
  60. Do another painting/full sketch
  61. Attend and participate in the March of Dimes walk
  62. Go to 4 shows with my kids (Disney on Ice, Imagination Movers, Spiderman)
  63. Get 500 blog followers
  64. Go to a CD release or pre concert party (Going to Hanson on 6/17)
  65. Make my friend and send her a breast cancer related present Unfortunately she passed away before I could.
  66. Find my biological half siblings
  67. Go on vacation with my family
  68. See a doctor about my depression/finally feel completely happy
  69. Win the lottery ($20 +)
  70. Eat (healthy) somewhere new and different (5x) 
  71. Go one week just spending necessary money.
  72. Find a place to move
  73. Re organize my kids room
  74. Grow my own nails out and maintain them for 2 months
  75. Go to Madam Tussauds
  76. Have my daughter meet her paternal grandmother or aunt
  77. Join something at my daughter's school/get her into a sport
  78. Go back to school/take classes
  79. Save up all of my pocket change
  80. Stick to my budget of $100 a week or less
  81. Walk outside at least once a week for 4 months.
  82. Clean the house well enough that my daughter can have her friends over
  83. Get Olivia into some socialization activities
  84. Fall in love
  85. Have my daughter meet the imagination movers
  86. Save $5 for every task I actually complete ($65 So Far)
  87. Finally get my hair the blonde color I want
  88. Read 10 books
  89. See 5 new musicals
  90. Wear a bikini
  91. Get one good family picture
  92. Make a real breakfast for my family for a month
  93. Find an amazing deal off of craigslist
  94. Find an amazing deal at a garage sale
  95. Get a new coach purse
  96. Have a very successful garage sale
  97. Make a brand new coupon binder and upkeep it
  98. Save 60%+ on a grocery order
  99. Try to get along with my mom for a week
  100. Meet a celebrity
  101. Get a new piercing or tattoo