I was 19 years old and in college when I got pregnant with my oldest daughter. Among spending money on clothing, concerts, going out with my friends and going out with my fiance, I now had another concern; being pregnant. It wasn't easy. I spent many days trying to figure out how I would continue to lead the normal life of a 19/20 year old while pregnant and also while having a newborn. One night I realized that I couldn't, I would just have to completely change the way I thought about myself, money and my free time. It seemed so challenging for me to think about having to change my ways. It only felt challenging to me until she was born.